His love life has been making more headlines than his music career lately. DJ and producer, Mkhululi Siqula best known by the alias Heavy K or Heavy Khusta has once again been dragged by a lover. The father of three was once called out by the mother of his first two kids and singer Ntombi Nguse (29) for being a deadbeat dad and not taking care of his children. Now the Ama Miliyoni DJ is being accused by the mom of his youngest child Phindile for being controlling.
BABY-MAMA DRAMA
In a post that has since been removed from social media, his baby mama Phindile calls the Port Elizabeth talent controlling. "Heavy K is just another f&^%ing abusive celebrity,' Phindile says. "I've been with this man for long now. I've went through things that not even 50-year-olds have been through.' The mom of one says that the Phakeme DJ controls her movements. "I'm not allowed to go out without his permission. I'm not allowed to have friends or talk to men whether it's family or not, he doesn't care.' Phindi says she is tired of going in and out of the hospital due to her mental health. "He destroyed my life. I'm breaking. I'm tired of being in and out of psychiatric hospitals,' she says. "Overdosing on pills to take my life because of what he was putting me through.' Phindile and Heavy K had their baby in December 2021.
FIRST BABY MAMA
Not long ago, the mother of his eldest children, Ntombi exposed the DJ for allegedly not taking care of his children. "When I say a lot, I mean a lot! You have been nothing but toxic from our past relationship till this very day you are toxic!' she said. "Co-parenting with you is one of the worst experiences I'm currently going through. It's a constant battle and it's sad because I've never seen this one coming. You've always loved your kids, always took care of them as a dad should." But ever since the year 2019 ,since they separated, Ntombi says he has also stopped being present in their children's life. "Ever since we parted ways, you kind of parted ways with your boys too, all they have now become is PR for your brand. You know how you always say, 'I'm selling my body to make money." Yes, you are absolutely correct! Simply because you aren't doing enough and if it means that I need to get paid to sleep with a man so that I can make ends meet for my boys I will do it without thinking twice!' Ntombi added.
HIS MAKHWAPHENI
Not long ago, a woman by the name of Prudence Lawrence came forward to say that she had an affair with former Black Motion member Bongani "Mörda' Mahosana and Heavy K. In a podcast titled Omakhwapheni Side Chicks on YouTube, Prudence detailed her alleged intimacy with the two stars and described their bedroom activities. Prudence said candidly on the podcast she dated both at the same time. "The list is so long. But I have been Heavy K's makhwapheni. I met Heavy K many years ago when I was shooting a music video for Vetkuk and Mahoota, back in the day.' She says when they met, he was not yet famous. "I just saw this guy wearing a Zulu vest and he looked like an ordinary guy. I thought he was just working there. He wasn't my cup of tea. But sometimes with tea, you have to add sugar and it becomes your thing. He then became famous, and they kept in touch. I had given him my number at the music video shoot. He called me up and asked to get to know me better. I thought I should give him a chance. I felt sorry for him and that is why I gave him my number. I was doing a good deed for the community. I thought, shame. He didn't shela right after. He waited for the song to come out. He wanted to use music to get to me,' she says. "We went on our first date at News Café. The hustle was real, I was trying to get free food. He was buying me lunch. The date was perfect, he was sweet, and I looked at him differently. I didn't think I was going to be a makhwapheni, but I was for many years. I couldn't tell If he was married at that point, but I knew he was seeing someone. I only found out about the wife after two or three years,' she says. "Even if there was a wife. I was never treated like a makhwapheni. ' Prudence says that being a makhwapheni was all about the financial and career benefits. Heavy K could not be reached for his side of the story.