It is initiation season where boys return to the mountain as men. Divorced couple Unathi Nkkayi and Thomas Msengana recently put their differences aside for the successful initiation of their son.

INITIATION

Held at Thomas Msengana's home in Kwa-Langa in Cape Town, their son's homecoming saw neighbours, friends, and family dressed in traditional isiXhosa attire and celebrating "bhuti omtsha." Speaking at the celebration, Unathi says her prayers have been answered. "Growing up, I spoke to God asking for a son, a husband, and a daughter and that is what he did," she says. "I'd like to thank my female tribe. All of you have helped me and Sinako's dad to raise him," she said. 

THANKFUL

Unathi thanked all her friends and family who shared this special moment with her family. "Thank you to the Embo Initiation Academy for the dignity in which you take care of our sons," she said. "You truly do deserve the title you have earned of being the best initiation school in the country." Unathi also said the journey started a month ago and culminated in one of the best days of her life. "A painful experience, which had me crying at random intervals even in board meetings with colleagues, and when they asked, 'What's wrong' all I would say is 'My son is in the bush.' No intimacy for a month, as required. I think added to it all. But ke silapha ngoku (we are here now). A period which had me drenched in prayer and ukuphahla."