She hasn't had a break from social media trolls since her rape case against Jabulani "Sjava" Hadede was passed on to the National Prosecuting Authority(NPA) and later withdrawn by the Director of Public Prosecutions in court. In 2018, Lady Zamar, real name Yamikani Janet Banda accused her ex-lover, Sjava of raping her at the Porche-Villa Hotel and Conference Centre in Thohoyandou in 2017. In an expose on social media, she stated the sex she had with Sjava was non-consensual." That morning, we were making out, kissing, and he had invited me into his hotel room. We had never been alone together, while this was happening, suddenly this person starts taking off my clothes and he raped me," she shared.
ENOUGH BULLYING!
Since then, she has not had a day off from Twitter trolls criticising her and calling her, a fake rape accuser. Although she had maintained her composure, Lady Zamar seems to have had enough of the bullying. "Why do you guys hate me so much? How have I become such an easy target for you guys?" she asks. "You guys don't know me or my full story, and you don't know why I've kept quiet for such a long time. You guys have no idea how you break a person. I can't move on from your assumptions of what happened to me. You've made your opinions my truth."
TRYING TO MOVE ON
The Collide singer says she has tried to move on. "What's the end goal of all this hate and why are you so determined to believe a story that's not even full of mine?" she asks. "When I try to tell you my truth, you guys don't wanna hear it. When I try to move on, you guys attack me how am I supposed to exist in this space, and when can I just be me and not have to either explain or apologise after you've commented on my stuff and said the most vile and evil tweets." The My Baby singer asks what people hope to achieve with the trolling. "What action would satisfy you guys coz I just can't just live my life? I can't just tweet and I can't just voice my opinions about anything, especially relationships. Please help me out here. Can I move on or should I keep on apologising for trying my absolute best to move on? Do you want me to kill myself? Do you want me to die, be murdered, go to jail to make you guys happy? Do you guys want me to stop making music or publicly cry so you can see how I actually feel about what happened to me? please tell me," she asks.
