THE family of a woman who discovered that her fianc? was sleeping with her mother is fuming. Thembisile Mtshali (29) from Greytown, in the Midlalnds of KwaZulu Natal, is angry after she discovered that her own mother Nomthandazo Sithole (55) is dating her husband-to-be, Sifiso Mhlongo(39). Mtshali, who did not want to be pictured, told Zimoja that her mother is a widow and she was shocked to learn Sithole was sleeping with her man, who recently paid lobola for her.                                      "I'm shocked that my own mother is doing this to me. People have been warning me that there was an affair going on between my mother and Sifiso. I thought people were jealous about our affair and couldn't believe it when she confessed to me that she was sleeping with my man. This is a disgrace, and I don't how I am supposed to respect her after what she did to me," she said.

SHE SAYS SHE HAS NEEDS TOO

Mtshali said Sithole did not deny the allegations about having am affair with my future husband. "I hate everything that my mother is doing. When I asked her about the affair, she said that she has needs and wants to be loved too. The audacity to tell me that she has needs too. She is not even ashamed of sleeping with my man. I have reported her to my uncle to talk to her. The family is now divided as some blame my fianc? and some are siding with her," she said.

A FRIEND SAW THEM KISS

Mtshali said that she was told by a friend who saw her fianc? and mother kissing. "My friend saw them last kissing in a park and didn't disturb them but carefully watched them as they were chilling and holding hands as if they are a married couple.My friend said that she wanted to take pictures as proof but unfortunately she does not have a smartphone. When I confronted both of them about the kiss, they didn't deny what my friend told me instead my fianc? said that my mother seduced him," she said. When the mother, Sithole was contacted for comment, she said: "Don't call me, I'm not a celebrity. Whether I was sleeping with him or not wena ungenaphi (How is it any of your business?" Mhlongo refused to comment and hung up.