Nonku William's mom Niniza Ngcobo is all about healing from past trauma. Best known as The Queen among the fans of Real Housewives of Durban, the preacher-mom shares gripping details of her life in an autobiography titled Is This The Worst Thing That Can Happen To You?

MARRIAGE, TRAUMA, AND ALCOHOL ABUSE

Season three of The Real Housewives of Durban returns on 1 February 2023 on Showmax with new episodes every Friday. Joining the old cast are Mbali Ngiba, Maria Valaskatzis, and Slindile Wendy Ndlovu, and returning cast members are Annie Mthembu, Jojo Robinson, Sorisha Naidoo, and Nonku Williams. In a past episode of Real Housewives of Durban, The Queen opened up about her divorce, toxic marriages, and battle with alcohol abuse. She expressed how she did not wish for her daughter to go through the same. "I know the effects of drinking. I went through the same thing, I was an alcoholic,' The Queen revealed. She said she wouldn't want her daughter to go through what she went through.

INSPIRING WOMEN THROUGH HER BOOK

 In her book, The Queen documents her real-life experiences in marriage, friendships, and family andNiniza Ngcobo says her book is to help other women like her to find healing. "I did not do this because I saw other people publishing books and believed that I could be an author,' she tells ZiMoja. "I really needed to share my story. As women, we go through things and we think it's only about us, but God constantly reveals to us that he has a bigger purpose and he allowed some things to happen, so he could use us,' she adds. "I have suffered betrayal and humiliation. I first got married when I was 19 years old and I was vulnerable to many things. I have been divorced three times. It was not easy. When my babies were small a lot happened. I am not portraying myself as a victim. I am not trying to belittle anyone or trying to betray anyone. This book