Actress Brenda Ngxoli has 'aired' her family's dirty laundry on social media alleging physical and financial abuse at the hands of her mother and her sister. This comes just a month after she did a tell-all about her family dramas on Podcast and Chill with MacG.
Brenda has since branded her sister, evil. "Althea Lumka Ngxoli is her name. My ungrateful beloved sister has made a habit through the years of verbally abusing me at every turn she wishes. Who has allegedly been spreading vicious rumours about me, kindly allow me to elaborate. Today I break silence," she said. "Through the years, I have supported my mom and sister with everything; rent, food, clothes, you name it. Even when I was living in Eastern Cape full-time, I was still paying their rent. One day when visiting them, my sister kicked me out at 11pm in the night,"
Brenda added that she has been homeless for nearly two years now. "Why must I leave all to them to enjoy? Nithi mandiyephi (where should I go), it's not like ya'll are going to house me. Why must the victim make a plan and perpetrators be left alone? Kwaze kwabuhlungu kum (this is painful)," she added. "Lastly, if my sister is going to take my stuff, she must do it during the people... Lumka you always said, 'Let's go to the media. Well, here it is Sisi. Let me share my fame with you." Brenda said she will no longer be silenced for the sake of her family's integrity. "But all I'm doing is creating a safe haven for shenanigans that do not grow nor heal us as a family. I'm done covering up my scars for my child's sake. May she know that even if it was a while later, mama spoke out," she concluded.
Brenda previously shared how she has done almost everything in her power to fix the dynamics in her family but failed. "I used to give all my salary to my family. I worked very hard for them, they even called social workers for me," she said. "My family and I are not on speaking terms." She said she bought some livestock, which her family later sold and she was left with nothing. She suffered from black tax after building her family home. "I worked hard but I don't have my sheep and goats. They threatened to take me to the papers."
Called for comment Brenda's sister, Lumka said, "This is a family matter, I won't entertain it in public." Brenda refused to elaborate further on the matter. "I said what I said, that is my truth."